File this under random stuff I have photographed this week

It’s been a busy week… things are wrapping up with lots of things (how’s that for a vague sentence?) and life is just busy, but that is May for you… less than two weeks until school is out for the summer and 5-6 weeks until we move. We close on our new house next week and provided all goes well and according to plan, we close on our current house two days before we take possession of the new house. So yes, we have sold our house, but I’m not ready to shout it to the world until all the inspections are behind us and the only thing we are waiting for is the closing. But I can tell you that God is good and He for SURE answers prayers and that is all for now. On to the real reason for this post…

My apologies in advance, but I was laughing at the series of photos on my phone for this week – none of them super pleasing to the eye or cute pics of my kids doing cute things… nope, just a real slice of life for what it is really like to be a parent.

Exhibit #1: swollen ankle/foot from a mosquito bite
Poor Jack. Daycare called me on Monday to let me know that Jack had been bitten by a mosquito and was having quite the allergic reaction. The pic below is after the Benedryl kicked it and had reduced the swelling quite a bit and yet you can still see how his ankle and foot are puffed up significantly more than the other leg, they were also hard, red and hot to the touch. [Not pictured: his other knee which was also bit up and swelled; bonus shot of his shorter toe from where the bone was removed to put in his thumb.] I called the pediatrician just to confirm that pain meds and Benedryl were the way to go and was advised to bring him in if the swelling did not improve the next day. In the morning Jack’s swelling had come back full force and he didn’t even want to walk on his foot because it hurt so Simon ended up taking him into the doctor, yes, for a mosquito bite. He learned there is a bad batch of mosquitoes that recently hatched but that should die out in the next week but the office had seen quite a few bad reactions that week, so at least we weren’t the only ones. Jack now has to take allergy meds every morning to help with potential reactions and wear long pants to daycare (where he seems to react the worst to the mosquitoes in their woods).
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Exhibit #2: suddenly grown-in adult tooth
Liam apparently has fast-growing teeth because last week when I was doing our regular check for loose teeth (his top two have been wiggly since before spring break) the bottom ones were not lose and totally by themselves in his mouth, but on Tuesday when he got out of school he showed me that not only was the bottom one wiggly, but his adult tooth was fully grown in behind it. How does this happen? Well, I know how this happens, the same thing happened to me in kindergarten when my bottom two adult teeth came in and the baby teeth weren’t even lose so I had to have them pulled by the dentist. Thankfully Liam’s tooth is quite loose so no traumatic tooth pulling in our future (we had enough of that with Jack, thank you very much).
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Exhibit #3: a tick
This is the picture that most squigs me out. Wednesday evening I noticed George had a bump on the underside, edge of his ear – but he’s had these before in the form of a non-problematic cyst and a skin tag. This looked like a skin tag since it was flesh-colored and mostly obscured by hair. Cut to Thursday night when I think again to check it out and note it seems bigger than the night before and when I take a closer look, I discover little black lines at the base of where it is attached to his ear. Um, those would be legs and my night suddenly got awful. I knew it was a tick but of course I Googled “ticks on dogs” and sadly confirmed my suspicion to be true (also, add that to the list of things not not look at Google images of – ick). I called Simon and told him that I’d have to wait for him to get home because I just could. not. remove. it. myself. He came home armed with tweezers and rubbing alcohol. It was a quick job and since it was moving around after we removed it, we were successful in removing all of it. Here it is after we asphyxiated it with a rubbing alcohol pad. Did you know that you shouldn’t flush a tick because that does not kill it and also you should keep it in case it needs to be tested? Now you know.
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So that’s my week… here’s hoping those are the set of three unexpected things that happen to us and that I don’t end up with a strange picture of Simon over the weekend.

Stop the cycle

A friend and I were chatting (and by chatting, I mean texting) about life and I mentioned I felt guilty about Liam not being on a sports team, despite the fact that he hasn’t expressed interest in joining a team and it’s not something I want to add to our calendar of life at this point in time. She said that she had admired how I just let my kids be and don’t go chasing after other family’s activities. She (wisely) told me to shoo away that mommy guilt and “realize that while you’re beating yourself up over something, someone else is watching your family and doing the same thing.” That’s “mommy” guilt for you – we all have it – we all fall victim to it and really it’s just a vicious, ugly circle. It’s just another form of comparison that we put on ourselves; feeling bad because we do things in a different way from another family.

And didn’t I already post something about comparison on not letting it steal our joy? Why yes, I did. And yet again, I needed a reminder to be happy with myself, who we are as a family and trust that we are making the right decisions for US, for where we are in life, despite what others do.

Life is just a constant stream of lessons to be learned… thank goodness for friends who speak (or type) truth to us when we need to hear it. May we always hear the voices telling us not to be stupid.

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Happy…

Toi, from Life of TOI, is participating in “Blog every day in May” from storyofmylifetheblog.blogspot.com and I am loving the prompts and her posts, which makes me wish I were participating, but realistically that is just not happening… but I am going to get some inspiration from one of the prompts from last week…

10 Things That Make Me Really Happy

  1. Great family days where you get to the end of them and you can just smile thinking about all the fun that was had. Mother’s Day was one of those days for us.
  2. Spending time with my girlfriends – my Rooks girls from college, my other college friends, my MOPS friends, my small group friends – nothing refreshes the soul like talking with friends.
  3. Afternoons at the beach
  4. Creating – whether it’s crafting, doodling, graphic design, cooking
  5. Reading – magazines, novels; hard cover, soft cover, on the Kindle, on my phone
  6. Sunny days that are cool enough to have the windows open with a cool breeze coming through.
  7. Live music – in a coffee house, praise band at church, concerts
  8. Really good food, especially Mexican or Tex-Mex
  9. Things that make me unexpectedly laugh
  10. Good hair days

Speaking of hair – it’s almost the day when I’ll be getting my hairs chopped off to donate. Check out my hair board on Pinterest and come back here and let me know which short haircut you like…

 

The phantom pee-er

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Why yes, that is a sink full of Legos, bleach and soap. Possible reasons for this scene to be taking place in my kitchen last night:

  • George peed on the Legos, ignoring his aversion for jumping on things that are not the floor or furniture
  • Jack peed into a bin of Legos a day or two ago without our knowledge
  • I’m OCD and clean the Legos like this every week

Anyone who knows us, knows that the second choice is sadly the correct answer. Bringing the tally of inappropriate places Jack has sneakily peed on in the last week to three (see also: on Liam’s bike in our garage and on the floor of our basement between two plastic bins). He also peed on a tree next to the track at Calvin, but that was with my permission.

I’m not sure who to blame this new misbehavior on or what to do about it but I do feel like he is acting out for some reason. These are not accidents, this are clear decisions to pee in the wrong place – he drops his pants and just goes. Why? Maybe related to selling our house and he’s marking his territory. Or maybe because grandpa taught him to stand up to pee and that opened a whole new world of possibilities up for him. I just don’t know.

I’m open to your thoughts on this because I am at a loss for where to go from here. Help.

Our month via Instagram

Before you get lost in the wonder that is my Instagram stream – I wanted to tell you that I hate mosquitoes and I hate that our crazy rainy/warm/cold/warm/hot weather seems to have created the perfect environment for them to thrive. Do not like.
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This song, first thing in the morning means it’s going to be a good day.


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Jack finds it impossible to take a normal photo lately. Right before this picture he tried to knock over the Statue of Liberty at Red Robin. Never a dull moment.


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Liam loves the whipped cream at Spoonlickers, I could just get him a bowl of that with some sprinkles and I think he would be happy (and it would cost a whole lot less).


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George, ever at my side, always ready to bark at whatever he sees out the window – a person walking, a bug, a dog 6 times his size – at eight years old he still acts like a puppy.


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My favorite sight on our drive home – I’m going to miss seeing this on a daily basis.


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Liam at his school music performance. They performed a bunch of songs but my favorite was their version of Rockin’ Frere Jacques where they must have been encouraged to dance however they wanted and my son threw horns like a good little AC/DC fan.


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My boys and my dad – makes my heart happy.


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We’ve rediscovered the park by our house thanks to house showings and needing to entertain ourselves with the dog in tow.


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After wanting to do it for ages, I finally painted the door leading to our upstairs (from our kitchen) with chalkboard paint. It’s funny the things you do when trying to sell your house that you could have and should have done ages ago.


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My birthday tribute to my sweetie – taken on Easter morning when he fell asleep while everyone else was hanging out in the living room – his ability to fall asleep in seconds and in the middle of chaos is admirable (if not slightly annoying).


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Bayou Brownies – yes please.


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I got to decorate my table for the last day of MOPS – proving I can sometimes be crafty given a deadline and opportunity.


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One of my favorite things: Creamy Chicken Taquitos. This was a triple batch… perfect for making ahead and freezing.


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See – the kid cannot make a nice face for the camera.


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For some reason my kids love posing with sculptures, though I can’t get them to just hug each other and smile.


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As good as his face will get for a picture.


IMG_20130511_201903[1]I adore looking at Jack when he’s asleep – it’s so rare to catch him unguarded.


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We’re also big fans of his sleeping in the car (and our own cheesiness).


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My kick ball boys – a perfect Mother’s Day afternoon/evening at a local school playground and topped off with a visit to Spoonlickers for dinner. Doesn’t get better than that!
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