I just read a post by Ciao Mom about finding the “why” in our lives – why we do the things we do – what inspires us, makes us feel good, influences the decision we make? She explains it in way more depth than I will go into here but you can just click the link above and read what she wrote. Her post made me think about what “lights me up.” It only makes sense to focus on those things, to intentionally seek them out because they fill us up; there is plenty that will drain us (an afternoon/evening spent with whiny children – gets me every time).
Here’s a brief list of the things that light me up, here’s hoping I can seek out opportunities to fill my life with more of them:
- Child-free time with my hubby
- Live music
- An evening of laughter and talking with friends (or just a single friend)
- Making food for others – having people over and entertaining
- Reading a good book
- Helping others however I can – I’m good in a crisis mostly because I don’t freak out but I’m also good at the little things and I like to be useful
- Watching my children play (happily) with my friends’ kids
- Crafting/creating
- A beautiful sunset, preferably on Lake Michigan
- Being in a big city (like Chicago) just for a visit
- Travel and road trips
- Iced coffee and McDonald’s fountain Diet Coke
- Graphic design
- Finding (and sharing) new music
- Real mail in the mailbox
- Praise music in church
- Cool breezes through open windows
- Watching the scale go down
- A newly straightened up house (though I realize this directly contradicts my dislike for cleaning, though you should note I didn’t say, newly cleaned house – just straightened)
- Writing
I am certain that #19 is not contradictory. I LOVE a newly straightened up house (well, a clean one too, for that matter- if someone wants to do it for me!) but I can’t stand cleaning. But certainly- liking it that way does not mean that you enjoy doing it (or that you do it nearly as often as you should)!
Maybe we should clean each others’ houses? It would fulfill my need to help others and make you happy and vice versa 😉
I don’t hate cleaning, but it doesn’t fill me up- definitely drains me- however a clean house- clean AND straightened fills me to the brim. Precisely why I have a cleaning lady. anywho- my list would be VERY similar, which explains why YOU make me happy every time I read your bloggity blog;)
I think that I need to look into this cleaning lady option… it would likely be worth it for the added happiness 🙂