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Vacation Recap: Texas

So I shared my vacation observations in my last post and thought it only fair that I share actual vacation highlights… though really, the whole vacation was a highlight.

We kicked off the trip with two days on the road to get us to Houston where my brother and his family live. My brother has lived in Texas since I was two (he’s 19 years older than me, yes, I was a “surprise”) and almost every spring break from when I was 3 to 22, my parents and I drove down to Texas to visit him, first in Austin where he was in college and then Houston where he has lived his entire adult life. I have taken this trip so many times, but this was the first time I drove without my parents (I’ve flown by myself and with Simon/kids ever since college) and that part was a little strange. But it was a smooth sailing trip aside from almost running out of gas (15 miles to E and only a Dollar General to be found) and driving into a tornado in Little Rock.

     

We spent our first weekend in Houston eating various meals that all included tortillas and drinking many margaritas and beers. We also took the kids to a parade and a park. My nephew and his girlfriend babysat one night while the grown ups went out for the evening. My nephew, a very modest type, reported that the kids did fine and he changed Jack’s diaper with his eyes closed. Something he can add to his resume when he’s applying for college next year.

That Monday we headed off for Corpus Christi to see my parents, who have been Winter Texans on Padre Island for 5+ years now. Per my father’s request, we stopped on our way to pick up a pound and a half of beef jerky – delicious. We had no plans for our trip other than to eat good food (check), go to San Antonio for the day sans kids and eat a mammoth cinnamon roll (check) and get tan (check). We also did some shopping and visited the aquarium, something I’m quite certain the adults enjoyed more than the children [during the dolphin show Jack headbutted me in the face in an attempt to be anywhere but there].

We left the grandparents, who I’m sure were glad to recapture the peace and quiet not allowed by two tireless grandchildren, and headed back to Houston to shore up for our return drive to Michigan. Sunday we ate at Good’s Taqueria (delcious) and visited the Rodeo. We did not see any roping of steers but we did pet animals (including a llama, but of course) and see the biggest cow I have ever seen, a longhorn steer. Monday morning we packed up and headed north, once again leaving peace and quiet in our wake.

  

[above: baby got on a llama, Liam and the llama; below: 30 minutes waiting for this much happiness = totally worth it, the longhorn, for reference, it’s horn-span was about 6 feet – the thing was HUGE]

  

Going to Texas is still one of my most favorite things to do and we hit the trifecta of perfect warm but non-humid weather, great meals/drinks and the ideal companionship of family. Hopefully future trips will live up to this one.

Let’s try this again…

So… we took a road trip to Texas with our 2-year-old and 4.5-year-old (the half year is super important, don’t you dare forget to add it on). And it went way better than expected. I’ve found that in parenting, if I completely think something is going to suck, when it doesn’t actually suck, I am happily surprised. It’s all about expectations. If I get too excited about something and think it will be awesome, chances are I will be disappointed. I’d rather prepare for failure and achieve success than the other way around. So if something I expected to fail actually does fail, well then, I’m not at all surprised and in theory should not be let down. That’s my parenting tip for you, free of charge, expect suckitude if you ever want to achieve happiness. [it totally makes sense] 

Anywho, back to the road trip… here are my observations:

  1. Chances are good there will be a Dollar General at any given exit, but there may or may not be a gas station. Chances are also good that you will be in need of gas but NOT cheaply purchased nick knacks.
  2. If you are travelling with children, you will eat too much McDonald’s food because it is the only chain with a playland and they are at almost every exit. Playlands are the key to your sanity. After two days in the car, you will want a salad and new intestines. [Note: Chick-fil-A also features a playland, sadly, they don’t exist all over the country. I love you Chick-fil-A – please come to Michigan.]
  3. Having a smart phone makes the trip so much more fun so you can post status updates and photos along the way – because people totally want up-to-the-minute updates of your progress. Plus, when you are not driving, you can play Angry Birds all you want (when you are not throwing snacks at the kids and turning around to find dropped pacifiers and sippy cups).
  4. If staying in a hotel, bring a baby monitor with batteries and you can put your little ones to bed in the room and either sit in the hallway or in your car right outside the door and wait for your child to go to sleep without having to go to sleep yourself. But you will still go to bed at 8:30 because you have been up since 4 am driving and you have changed time zones. Sad but true.
  5. When you go on vacation and stay with family, it will seem more like a vacation because they will love your kids and share some of the parenting responsibilities but at the end of the day, you are still the parent and you will come home just as worn out as when you left, though with a tan (unless you went somewhere cold and that is just stupid).
  6. Your husband will perhaps be more of a complainer than your children during the trip and you will perhaps want to hurt him. This is because he did not set himself up with lowered expectations, you should feel sorry for him because he was not prepared like you were for the trip.
  7. Feed your children while they are in the car and when you stop, just let them run around. Everyone will be happier, you can clean the car later.
  8. Save the DVD player until you absolutely need to get it out because once it is out, there is no going back and you will have to listen to Nemo, The Wiggles and Buzz & Woody for a long time. If you are me, you prefer to listen to music.
  9. There are cops every 20 miles in Illinois, where the speed limit is only 65 mph (unless you are in Chicago), so resist the urge to speed. [Note: we did not get pulled over but it pained me to only go 70 for such a long leg of our trip.]
  10. Road trips are so worth it and if you start them young, your kids will grow up enjoying the time they spent in the car and will have many fond memories to look back on that they will want to share with their own kids (it worked for both Simon and I).

(yes, I was totally driving when I took this photo and I am appropriately sheepish)

Slump

I think I’m in a slump. Overall I am happy but in general, not content. I’m having trouble finding the motivation to get things done. Mostly at work, but at home, too. I’m hoping our vacation at the end of the month will rejuvenate me (or, perhaps send me to the crazy house – we’re roadtripping 1200 miles with our 4.5-year-old and newly 2-year-old). But if not, I need to figure out what to do to get out of this slump because dreading the coming week starting every Sunday after lunch is no way to be living the rest of my life.

Oh how I wish for independent wealth. Or a new career. I realize that neither of these are going to just fall into my lap, but that sure would be ideal.