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Tuesday Randoms

Back to regularly scheduled randomness now that I’ve gotten my end-of-the-year-but-in-February posts out of system. There are many points in my day that I think, oh, I need to put that on my blog – I don’t know what this says about me, but we’re going to pretend it means that I’m a giver, I want to share with you (because I do).

  • I have a little girl crush on Kristen Bell (formerly of Veronica Mars, which I never watched but now just in general actress in movies and tv) there was this adorable video on her on YouTube from the Ellen Show where she loses it over her boyfriend surprising her with a sloth visit for her birthday and then I saw her on Chelsea Lately and she was hilarious there. I really appreciate people who can tell a good story and have quick, dry humor.
  • We watched Soul Surfer Friday night at Ladies Movie Night at church and in the moments leading up to the shark attack, I actually was physically uncomfortable, I got clammy and my heart was racing and I absolutely could not look at the screen – I have a problem with things in the water, I know this, but I have never reacted so dramatically. The movie ended up being really good and definitely one we’ll get because it tells the story of a girl, who despite losing her arm to a shark, beats the odds and continues on her journey to becoming a professional surfer – a great movie to show your child who doesn’t have two fully functioning hands.
  • Panera has gotten super fancy now and they bring your food out to you when you are dining in and clear your table when you are done. Is this to justify raising their prices and charging $10 for pasta dishes?
  • We had conferences for Liam and the first thing his teacher said was, “That is a kid who can talk. He never stops.” We were not surprised. Thankfully, his teacher was also the kid who never stopped talking so she has a soft spot for his kind. Phew. She also warned us that it never goes away so for the next twelve years, this is what we will hear at conferences.
  • I had a sitter-heavy week last week and it was just what the doctor ordered – I’m feeling way more like myself after some friend time!
  • Saturday night was date night with Simon and I surprised him with a gathering of some of our friends at Brewery Vivant (delicious food, very cool atmosphere) and a tour of the brewery; we had a great time and as I expected, Simon showed his surprise but not at all reacting to the fact that we were suddenly joined by 12 other people – he’s unflappable, he simply blinks a few times in the face of something unexpected. But he blinked a whole lot and had a great time so I’m chalking that up to a win!
  • I also had a cold but ended up taking Muscinex D from a recommendation from my coworker and it was AWESOME – cold symptoms GONE. No more sinus pressure, no more randomly watery eyes and no more constant nose-blowing. I have finally found the magic pill. Plus standing in line at the pharmacy I got the chance to talk a mom into getting Nicorette gum for her son who said he would use it if she bought it but she was balking at the cost until I pointed out it was nothing in comparison to the cost of buying cigarettes for a year.
  • One day last week my Facebook news feed was all lit up with pictures of friends’ new babies and people signing up for the Chicago marathon and I thought… hmmm… these are two things I won’t be doing anytime soon, if ever and for some reason it just tickled my funny bone.
  • I am just a bit jealous of all my friends who are pregnant and have found out they are having boys – so fun! Though if I were to ever have another kid, I think I’d want a girl. Because a) we don’t already have one and b) we have a great girl name that I love [Fiona] and not a single boy name left.
  • I had 2.5 hours to myself, alone in my house without any children on Saturday morning and it was so lovely. Though I did nothing super productive or special, it was a nice break since my dream is to have a whole weekend to myself in my house without any children so I got to realize about 1/24th of a dream.
  • Right after we got back to Australia it snowed and on my way to the grocery store, just after having visited our other totalled car at the mechanic, I almost crashed our functioning vehicle because I was in the center turn lane and a teenage girl pulled out from the right, across traffic to enter into the oncoming traffic. Thankfully I was able to stop in time and thankfully it would have been her fault if I had hit her since she was the one shooting out in front of traffic but she stopped her car and I could see she was swearing at me and then she flipped me off for the longest time. And I was just overcome by how rude she was, especially when I DIDN’T hit her but at that point was tempted to hit the gas and smash into her. Obviously I’m still a little touchy on it since it’s almost three weeks later and I’m still thinking about it. Grrr.
  • In other driving frustrations, I was almost run down by the same person three times yesterday morning because apparently I wasn’t going fast enough for them on the Belt Line, though I was speeding myself. So they tailgated me, then passed on the right, then cut me off and then when I changed lanes, they drove in the middle of the two lanes so I couldn’t pass them. I retaliated by taking a photo of their license plate at the next stop light and gave them a thumbs up, I’m nothing if not friendly.
  • Here are some things I’ve made from Pinterest in the last week: Gluten-free brownies, Quinoa salad with black beans, avocado and cumin lime dressing and carmelitas
  • To make the carmelitas, I needed caramels to melt down but my lovely husband (who I totally appreciate) got the wrong kind at the store so rather than take the kids to the store just to get them (or horror, not make them) I made my own caramels – that’s totally normal, right? I did find it ironic I had all the ingredients to make caramels but not actual caramels in my house.
  • I have about a billion hours (or like 20) of TV shows to catch up with on our DVR; we also reached our limit on the number of series we can have set to record so we had to remove some from the list, finding many cancelled shows that we just languishing in our queue.
  • I love, love, love my friends – seriously, just love them.
  • A week ago, Friday, when Sandy came over to hang out, my kids both called her Aunt Sandy because of Simon’s sister in Australia being named Sandi but then Jack started calling her Uncle Sandy and that made us laugh.
  • I do sometimes think that I could handle a brood of children but I know that my husband could not – he’s kind of key to that equation. But when we had Jack’s birthday we also had 9 children under 6 in our house and it wasn’t bad. Of course there were also many other adults, but the kids really entertained themselves. Where I think it would get crazy would be feeding all those kids and getting them ready to get out the door. What is it with kids transitioning to leave the house – holy cow – it’s like a new concept to them EVERY DAY, multiple TIMES a day!
  • The Super Bowl ads, per usual, were nothing great… but I did love the Detroit/Chrysler halftime ad with Clint Eastwood – made me a little verclempt. And as someone else noted on Twitter, totally annoyed by GoDaddy yet not at all put out by ogling David Beckham in the H&M ad – in my defense, his ad was actually FOR body wear, not internet hosting services.

And here’s a song for you since there was no Music Monday yesterday, yes it’s on the recent Twilight soundtrack but I didn’t know that when I started listening to it and I just love it:
A Thousand Years | Christina Perri

For the birthday boy who today is three

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Oh how I love that face and that boy, my little Jackers Knackers. I can hardly believe it has been THREE years since you entered our lives. You came into this world so appropriately, three quick pushes and all in a hurry to be out here and in the mess. [Sidenote, my doctor was still in the parking garage when I told the nurse I wanted to start pushing – thankfully she made it in time.] You came so quickly that you earned yourself a little trip to the NICU because your lungs needed a little more drying out and you were, after all, a month early but like you have continued to do, you exceeded our expectations and surpassed any limits we foolishly thought existed. You were the giant baby in the NICU, hanging out in a normal bassinet, showing up those tiny premmies in the isolettes next to you – it was quite ridiculous to see you there once you got your oxygen levels and eating figured out. And it’s been pretty much non-stop since that day and I gotta ask you, can you give your mommy a little break? I promise I just need like a weekend where you aren’t into something or pouring chocolate onto the couch then I’ll be good to go for the next year. Okay? Let’s pinky swear on that one.

You are just such a cutie that all of it is forgivable – God certainly knows what He’s doing when He makes the cute ones so much trouble; a cute face will earn forgiveness for many things. And you are still my baby, even at three and even though you NEVER cuddle with me (aside from those five nights since we got back from Australia where you’ve decided that you are done sleeping and want to have a cuddle on the couch with your mommy and while I would love to be sleeping, I would much rather have the chance to hold you in my arms because that NEVER ever happens. Have I mentioned NEVER?); but yet, you’re our baby and I’m in denial that you’re really a “big boy.” Break my heart.

You pooped on the potty Friday night for the babysitter – a first, a huge first – and I actually got a little teary when I saw the text from her. Sad that I missed such a big occasion and sad because the inevitable is happening and you are finally deciding that the potty isn’t as horrible as you thought. [Dear future Jack – sorry, I told the Internet you pooped on the potty and it made me teary. Not really sure who that’s more embarassing for, so let’s call it even.]

You are growing up. FYI – kiddo, because you are growing up, it’s time to pass those nighttime pacifiers on to a new baby and potty boot camp is in full effect – that’s what you get for growing up, but I promise you’ll thank me when you’re a teenager who doesn’t need a hit on a paci to get to sleep and can qipe his own bum.

While we were in Oz you suddenly physically grew – legs stretching out to fit your 3T pants, torso elongating so many of the t-shirts we brought suddenly were a little on the short side. You are losing the roundness of toddlerhood, your belly no longer protruding as it once did. I’m not the first mother to bemoan the loss of their baby as he grows into a boy and you’re not even my first child to go through this, but it feels new all over again.

I adore how you stick your lips out to give me kisses. How you slump your shoulders forward to pout. How you stomp your foot on the floor to prove a point. How you stare at the top of the fridge where we keep our snacks and thoughtfully say, “I want some-fing!” How you call out, demanding hugs and kisses, if we leave your room without giving them to your satisfaction. How you don’t disguise your feelings one bit and have the most awesome angry face I’ve ever seen. How you are never held back by what you can’t do (because the list is so very tiny in comparison to the one of the things you CAN do). How you so want to be doing whatever it is that Liam’s doing but you never let on that you look up to him and have to antagonize him at every turn (well, I don’t adore this part so much, but I love that you love each other, even if you show it in funny ways).

I love that you are mine and I am yours and all together with Liam and daddy, we are a family.

Happy birthday, my sweet boy, today you are three!

Year In Review

Had I been more on my game I would have done a recap of my year at the actual end of 2011, but well… anyway. My blog is just over a year old, so now is as good a time as any to do the recap. Also, for anyone who is new here, please check out my favorite posts.

January 2011
– As a family we were recovering from Jack’s hand surgery – he got his cast off right after Christmas and was wearing a splint in January
– Started my bloggity blog with my 2011 Resolutions
– First Music Monday post with my fave, David Gray

February
– Jack turned 2, Simon turned 36 (mathematically, he’s now rounding up to 40)
– We “celebrated” one year of Simon working second shift (verdict: it still stinks, but it’s also handy for saving money with childcare)

March
– We road tripped to Texas with the boys and survived

April
– I finally found my blogging groove
– Easter and all its fun and family time
– Started feeling more back to normal (and starting to think I have SAD)
– Read Heaven is For Real for book club (read it)
– Celebrated 6 years of marriage (Confession: I’m horrible at remembering how many years we’ve been married)
– We switched churches
– I started Weight Watchers

May
– Liam graduated preschool and my great-nephew, Max, turned 2!
– I admitted to liking Justin Bieber
– My fourth year of MOPS wrapped up for the summer
– I got pooped on by a bird for the 5th time in my life

 June
– We said goodbye to Jonna and Darin
– The boys started at a new daycare
– Checked out Festival in downtown GR
– I owned up to my fears and regrets
– Something serendipitous happened
– After a year (and a lifetime) of waiting, we finally saw U2 in concert

July
– I turned 33 and made a list of things I wanted to do before I turn 35
– We saw DMB and David Gray at the Chicago leg of the DMB Caravan
– Posted my 100th blog post

August
– Liam turned 5 and that freaked me out a little, but we made the Carnitas-Style Beef with Onions and Peppers from PW’s blog and it made it all worth it
– I reached a goal of losing 10% of my body weight
– Used my mother’s day gift to see Sara Barielles with two of my favorite people
– Baby Wesley arrived a tad early (two months) but proved to be a NICU rockstar and was home in short order!

September
– Liam started kindergarten (which he loved and asked to go every day) and soccer
– Simon coached rugby at Calvin (see also: spring semester and the rest of fall)
– I made something with quinoa and loved it
– Liam went to his first Spartan football game
– MOPS restarted for the year and this year I’m a table leader (and I have an awesome table – probably because of their leader – ha!)

October
– My dad had his knee replaced
– We checked out ArtPrize in downtown GR
– We bought tickets to go to Australia
– I rounded out my year of concerts by road tripping with Stef to Ann Arbor to see Boyce Avenue
– I made Angry Birds costumes for the boys for Halloween

November
– My friend, Tracey, and I got to get away for the weekend – it was glorious
Lots of thankfulness
– Thanksgiving

December
– Christmas parties
– My office moved
– Christmas with family
– Boarded a plane for Australia, celebrated the new year’s arrival in the air

Never work with children…

I was going through the photos on my camera and ran across the photos I took while attempting to get a nice shot of the boys dressed up for Christmas Eve. Key word being attempting.

Little did I know the first picture was going to be the best one of the evening.

 
 

I should have known better than to take the photo AFTER all the excitement of present-opening, but I was a little preoccupied getting everything ready for the night, alas…

Almost a good one… and then not so much.

  
 

And now we’ve lost one… better luck next year!

2011 Resolution #6: Read One Book a Month, Update Three

#6 on my 2011 list of resolutions was read one book a month and by June I’d accomplished reading my 12 books, but still read more. For reference: update one and update two.

  1. A Clash of Kings (A Song of Ice and Fire, Book 2) by George R.R. Martin | This is the book that locked me into the series, no matter how long and intense they are (and if I read the reviews right, the third book is kind of a letdown), I will finish the series because I have to find out how this all turns out. Martin has finished five books in the series and has two more to write (he says) so perhaps I will make it through them by the time he publishes the next one. There was a chapter in this book that surprised, no shocked, me so much I woke Simon up after I read it because I exclaimed, “What!? What just happened?” I can’t say this has ever happened before when I was reading a book and that is most definitely the sign of a good novel, or at least good storytelling.
  2. They Almost Always Come Home by Cynthia Ruchti | A free book that my friend, Dawn, lent me through Amazon/Kindle. It was probably not my favorite, but it wasn’t bad, just not my typical type of story and a bit predictable. But I needed a mindless book to cleanse my literary palate after the long, intense “A Clash of Kings…”
  3. The Winter Sea by Susanna Kearsley  | This was a cheap kindle book that I purchased shortly after I got my Kindle when I was getting “special offers” right and left. It turned out to be a thinking woman’s romance novel and I quite liked it with its back story and historical fiction added in. Definitely a good read and if I were looking for a beach read, I’d download more of her books.
  4. Heat Wave (Nikki Heat 1) by Richard Castle | Simon and I are huge fans of the TV show Castle and Amazon was running a special on the Kindle edition of the book “written” by the main character in the show, Richard Castle. I read the favorable reviews and found it to be a quick read that was true to the TV characters. It certainly wasn’t high literature, but I think this is the year of mindless books for me – either that or the super intense.
  5. The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins | re-read on my weekend reality escape with my dear friend, Tracey. Cannot wait until the movie comes out.

So I accomplished that task of reading 12 books in 2011, though I probably could have done more had I not included the Ice and Fire series in my reading list for the year – those are each worth about three novels apiece. Alas.

In progress: A Storm of Swords (A Song of Ice and Fire, Book 3) by George R.R. Martin (my goodness is this one taking me FOREVER to get through).

Waiting on my Kindle to be read (this doesn’t include the plethora of hard copies I have in my possession): A Feast for Crows (A Song of Ice and Fire, Book 4) (George R.R. Martin), Pride and Prejudice and Zombies (Jane Austen & Seth Grahame-Smith), Half-Assed: A Weight-Loss Memoir (Jennette Fulda), Pictures of You (Caroline Leavitt), Life of Pi (Yann Martel); and The Boy Who Came Back from Heaven: A Remarkable Account of Miracles, Angels, and Life beyond This World (Kevin Malarkey)

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