Category Archives: Top Ten Tuesday

Top Ten Songs that Make Me Happy

It’s no secret that I love music, if my summer ‘o concerts hasn’t tipped you off, perhaps I can refer you to my Music Monday library. So when life gets a little crazy, or off kilter, it only makes sense that music can set me straight and lighten my mood. And here are the songs that work best:

  1. This Year’s Love | David Gray (a no-brainer for me)
  2. Dancing in the Moonlight | Toploader (because the boys both love it so much and request it all the time)
  3. Stand By Me | Ben E. King (I’ve always loved this song but it also gives me fond memories of the summer I took guitar lessons and learned to play it and then had to play it in front of a room full of people and was expected to sing; thankfully someone else sang for me and yet I was pretty near the most nervous I’ve ever been in my life.)
  4. Open Skies | David Crowder Band (a song we sang in small group and that was played when we lit the unity candle in our wedding)
  5. A Page Is Turned | Bebo Norman (a love song about a how God brought a couple together – so sweet; I also emailed Bebo Norman before I knew who he was and asked him to play the song at my roommate’s wedding. Oddly, he never responded.)
  6. Linger | The Cranberries (you can’t hear this song and not sing along, at least I can’t)
  7. Free Fallin’ | Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers (cliché but true)
  8. Under the Bridge | Red Hot Chili Peppers
  9. Fields of Gold | Sting (this song was my favorite song for a very long time – even if Sting is kind of creepy)
  10. In My Life | The Beatles (melancholy, but happy making, none-the-less)

Top Ten {Tuesday}This post is linked to Oh Amanda’s Top Ten Tuesday.

Top Ten Thoughts on 10 Percent

It only seemed appropriate that this week’s top top ten list had to do with losing 10% of my body weight since officially starting my better living journey (a.k.a., Weight Watchers), a milestone I reached this past weekend. (Unofficially, I’ve lost more since last summer – more like 20% – but I wasn’t making a concerted effort until April.) It made me laugh when I was given the option to start maintenance, rather than set a new goal; now that I’ve come this far, there’s no way I’d settle for staying where I am.

Here’s what I’ve learned (so far):

  1. A balanced breakfast to kick off the day is as important (if not more important) as any other aspect of diet and exercise. I have a boiled egg, yogurt and fresh fruit (and often a slice of whole wheat toast) most every morning and it makes a difference.
  2. I hadn’t even realized how much sugar was in my diet until it wasn’t there anymore. And I don’t miss it. I’d much rather eat some black forest ham than a gummy bear for the same number of points. [I had cake and some gummy fruit slices yesterday for Liam’s birthday and today I have the biggest headache.]
  3. People who are openly supportive are awesome, inspiring and great for keeping me accountable. I started using myfitnesspal.com a couple weeks ago to see if I liked it better than WW and it’s been great to have people I know on there and see what workouts they are logging and be able to comment and cheer them on, and vice versa (it’s like Facebook for diet and exercise). I also have a great walking partner and knowing we have a standing “date” every week with our boys commits me to working out at least once a week.
  4. I enjoy exercising and I’m done with excuses for not doing it, because there are many and they are valid but being healthy is MORE important than the excuses. I walk at least once a week with the lovely Sandy, but my goal is at least five times a week of 30 minutes of activity at a time. It’s hard with working full time, having a spouse who works when I’m not working and having two young children but it must be done. I borrowed a stationary bike from friends and have it in the basement and after the boys are in bed, my Kindle and I hit the basement and sweat it out. I’d love an elliptical or a treadmill (I’d love to do the Couch to 5K program, but with Simon working nights, the only way I could do it would be on a treadmill or getting up before work. You can see why I’d choose a treadmill.)
  5. I sweat, a lot. According to my dad, it’s hereditary. Sorry to anyone who sees me after I work out. It’s just the way it is.
  6. I don’t know that I’ll ever feel “skinny,” but I know I’ll feel healthy. I don’t love the way my body looks but I never have – no matter what size I was. I also don’t hate my body and never have. But I do love having endurance and more energy – that I can tell a difference with. What’s most important is feeling good about myself, not based on what I look like or the number on a scale (though it’s nice to have it be smaller), but based on how I feel. Right now, I feel good but I know I can feel great.
  7. I totally don’t mind eating cucumbers or bananas for a snack. If I’ve got points/calories to spare, pretzels and tomatillo salsa are also yummy.
  8. I love salads. A good salad should take time to make; if you take the time, it will taste delicious. (My favorite salad: greens, cucumber, tomatoes, carrots, black forest ham, boiled egg and shredded parmesan cheese (red wine vinegar and garlic salt for dressing) – 4 pts. on WW and delicious, I’m not even kidding.)
  9. Splurging once a week on a meal out where I don’t worry about calories is great and allowable, and key for not getting burnt out. I’m learning to not feel guilty about it because it’s obviously not a deterrent overall.
  10. I’m proud of myself and doing this for me but I’m also glad to be doing this for my kids and while Jack has no clue what’s happening, I know Liam is proud of me, whether he gets that feeling or not.


Top Ten {Tuesday}This post is linked to Oh Amanda’s Top Ten Tuesday.

Top Ten Reasons Having a Five Year Old is Freaky*

*I could have also said terrifying, disconcerting, exciting, fascinating or wonderful (though I fear that last one would be stretching it a bit – much like saying having a puppy that never stops barking or running in circles is wonderful; cute, yes and highly entertaining, but perhaps not wonderful). But I kid, Liam himself is wonderful, but the five year old stage is, well, interesting.

To commemorate Liam’s turning five next Monday, let’s have a little look at the reasons having a five year old freaks me out. Continue reading

Top Ten Things I Should Be Doing

  1. Making a to-do list (or five).
  2. Laying out a newsletter and/or a brochure.
  3. Responding to email (personal and work).
  4. Making an appointment to get a will written (for real – I KNOW this is something we need to do)
  5. Paying bills (personal and work).
  6. Spending time each day reading the Bible.
  7. Remembering to be thankful in all things.
  8. Drinking coffee or Diet Coke (always a given, but probably not a good idea because of the possible ulcer detail)
  9. Finishing something (I’m a starter).
  10. Showing others more grace.

Top Ten {Tuesday}This post is linked to Oh Amanda’s Top Ten Tuesday.

Top Ten Childhood Memories

I’ve been thinking a lot lately of what things my kids will remember from their childhoods, often in relation to what I hope they won’t remember (we’ll let it at that, no need to go into specifics). But it got me thinking about the things I remember from growing up, the moments that had the most impact and the majority of them are happy memories or meaningful moments. Many are days or events that were captured on film, which I think helps reinforce the memory, or even shape it into something more than it was.

Let’s take a walk down memory lane, shall we?

  1. My dad reading to me before I went to bed. I don’t remember board books but I do remember Charlotte’s Web and other classics. We read every night and I think it helped cement my love of books – getting to visit a new world through my imagination was such a treat. Also, I can’t recall if my mom did the reading, too, or if it was just my dad – perhaps because she was home with me all day so that was our special time. Continue reading