Gratitude, 21-40

21. Friends who are like family (and family who are friends).

22. George’s groomer who always makes him look so cute, even with his jaunty little scarf.

23. Getting an hour of silence thanks to the Kindle and the Wii… I’m not above using technology for mental health purposes (my own mental health).

24. Amazon Prime.

25. The laugh-value of the Olympics closing ceremonies – I kept saying (to myself), “Oh come on, this is as good as they could get?”

26. Morning cuddles with my boys.

27. That there is a Smashburger in Grand Rapids.

28. Friends who don’t get sick of me when they see me five out of seven days in a week.

29. Other friends who have all boys and our play dates.

30. Simon coming home early on Wednesday night – always a gift when we get evening time together.

31. Older brothers (especially mine).

32. Getting to hold babies, feed them bottles and give them back.

33. A doctor who agrees I should get physical therapy for my neck since I can’t sleep on my back without waking up with a headache (I’m hoping physical therapy includes some massage).

34. Goodies fresh from the garden.

35. Sweet corn from the Curtis Family Farm (it’s the best).

36. Liam’s generous, thoughtful heart.

37. Watching Jack play “family” with Chloe and Victoria from daycare.

38. A babysitter who not only takes care of Jack’s bloody nose, but changes the sheets on his bed the very first time watching our kids.

39. Groupons for dinner downtown – date night!

40. Grocery shopping without kids.

What are you grateful for lately?

Music Monday: The Happy Edition

Because it’s a gloomy Monday and we need a little pep and because it’s not-so-baby Wesley’s first birthday, how about some happy music for Music Monday? [And also because I cleaned the disaster area that was existing under our basement steps and donated 6 bags of clothing – I win at the Olympic sport of spring clean up after massive procrastination.]

Wonder | Natalie Merchant – For Wesley


Be OK | Ingrid Michaelson – If ever you doubt yourself, listen to this song and you’ll remember that you’re going to be okay.


Merry Happy | Kate Nash – Put a little oomph in your step with this one.


Australia | The Shins – Had to pick this song for the name alone.


Upside Down | Jack Johnson – Johnson is the perfect pick-me-up for a rainy day.


Ants Marching | Dave Matthews – You can’t hear the intro violin (or would it be a fiddle in this case) and not smile, at least I can’t.

Instagram, week 18

Not many photos this week… Hope yours has been wonderful!
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My little owl, featured in a previous blog post, was part of Dooce’sDaily Chuck so I had to get a pic of it on my desk and on my computer screen… Guess we both purchase home decor accessories at Coldwater Creek.


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It rained this week and I opted to protect my hair with a scarf but ended up channeling a grandma more than anything… That’s okay, at least my hair-drying work wasn’t wasted.


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Jack has no trouble performing for the camera (though getting him to sit still to capture a clear image is more difficult, I have half a dozen or more of these in motion and blurry).


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I didn’t know Liam knew how to do this with his hands until he showed me over the weekend so I had to capture it on film (but of course).


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Jack enjoyed the frosting off this cupcake way more than he enjoyed the actual cake… And then he had the green *ahem* poop *ahem* to show for it.


Reblogging…

I started my blog 18 months ago but for the first bit, didn’t tell anyone about it because I wanted to make sure it would stick and I wanted to find my voice a little bit before I shouted it out to my circle of people. Then at Christmas I put the URL on our Christmas card (no going back then) and started sharing links of FB (which still feels a little squiggy, but you can choose not to click through or just ignore me completely – I’ll never know) so there was no going back. I love writing, it’s a great outlet for me and I enjoy entertaining people, but I don’t write to entertain, I write for me (and I am apparently easily entertained). It’s free therapy, even when it’s silly stuff like about things I think while watching the Olympics, or self-indulgent birthday wishes to my kiddo who can’t read all the words yet. I love, love, love that someday, my kids will get to read these posts and learn more about their mom as a person instead of just their mom – what a (hopefully) great gift of insight for them.

I was looking at my stats page, wondering what my most popular posts have been (for the record, the winners are: Working Girl because of my reference to both Skidz pants and hypercolor clothing; Things I Love: Cake because of the Lightning McQueen buttercream transfer; and Perfectly Imperfect because it might have the most of my heart in it. And then I wondered what my least-viewed posts were and after looking at a couple, I wanted to re-share (pretty sure that’s not a word, sorry) them here for various reasons… maybe you’ll find something you like but missed and hopefully you don’t find that overly indulgent of me.

Five Question Friday

Just for kicks, here are a couple of cute things Jack has been saying: instead of laughing he says “lapping” and when you tell him not to do something, he responds enthusiastically with, “I willn’t!” And my friend, Tracey, noted that when he says “coffee” it sounds like he has a Bostonian accent, apparently that’s what happens when you hybrid the Michigan nasal with the Australian accent.

That have absolutely nothing to do with anything but I wanted to share before I forgot.

Liam had a marvelous birthday, really, a birthday week since we have seen friends every day and gotten to hang out with some of our favorite people and eat lots of sugary things. His favorite present was a camouflaged wallet with a velcro closure (second favorite was the $1 bill he got from his cousin – the kid is currently obsessed with money which means we have some nice life lessons in store for us with saving/giving/spending).

Also, I’m having a good hair day today, at least I was until I left the house and when out into the rain multiple times to drop the kids off at two daycare locations (Liam’s daycare had to move for the last three weeks as they were using space that now needs to be used for a head start program).

How about a little 5QF?

1. Thunder storms- love them or hate them?
Love. My kids don’t wake up when it storms so I don’t mind at all when they come (that said, now they will totally start waking up because I dared poke the beast of announcing something to be true on the Internet). My only complaint about storms, or preference I guess, is that if a day starts out stormy, I want it to stay dark and gloomy all day – I don’t like it when it clears up and switches to sunshine after a few hours (probably because that usually means it is then humid and humidity I hate).

2. Do your kids get back to school clothes
Not really, I mean, I did buy Liam some new jeans and a couple shirts for his birthday but we shop throughout the year, hitting up good sales and stocking up when we see a good price (my husband is best at this and I believe we had Liam’s size 7 wardrobe done sometime in the winter). But as they get older, I know we will probably do this a little more, letting them pick out one special outfit that’s new for the first day of school. I remember what that was like when I was in school and I loved having something special for the first day.

3. Do you golf? Do you watch it?
I have golfed exactly once. It wasn’t a horrible experience but I’m not a natural. Growing up golf was always on the TV on Sundays (when there was a tournament) so I watched it then. I used to have a theory that only the guys who wore hats played the best, then the visors and then those with bare heads (which, really, I’m sure they are super happy about not wearing hats now that they have skin cancer on their noggins – and also because they always lost – sure, the white foreheads from hat-wearing looks ridiculous, but wouldn’t you rather be non-cancerous and a winner?).

4. Showers or baths?
Showers just because they are easier and more refreshing in the morning. But if I want to relax, then bathtub all the way – though I never feel clean after a bath. I don’t really enjoy sitting in a wet mixture of soapy water and sloughed off skin cells (you are welcome for that mental picture). For relaxing, I’d prefer a hot tub, at least then it doesn’t feel like a dirty soup.

5. What’s the strangest meal you ever ate?
In terms of the food, I’m certain the strangest meal I ever ate was in Kazakhstan when I was in college. There were quite a few things I ate that I don’t even know what they were (because I learned it was better not to ask). Actually, I felt like I answered this question already and I did a search and found that one week Mama M didn’t have a 5QF so I made up my own (please refer there – hilariously, I also noted that I was almost named Robin Renee and mentioned my dislike for that name, only to have someone comment who was actually named Robyn Renee – sorry).

And in terms of the whole experience, a meal I had in Kazakhstan to celebrate the 18th birthday of my roommate’s neighbor also ranks up there as the strangest (though most unique would be a better term); we ate for at least four hours, stopping at one point to take a walk around their backyard vegetable garden. And her whole family stared at me for the entire meal, asking endless questions and plying me with wine (from California – FTW) and vodka (from Russia – for the headache); for a few hours, I knew what it would be like to be a celebrity and it was a little heady. Then I sang Céline. And then the birthday girl’s parents and aunt and uncle sang Russian songs and made me feel like I wanted to stay there forever in that moment because I knew there would never be another one like it. I wish it were possible to relive that again with older, adult eyes and take it all in.


Linking up with Mama M for Five Question Friday.